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Thursday, September 8, 2011

Grandchildren: Chapter 1

I've decided to post about each of my grandchildren around their birthday time.  I'm going to start with my youngest grandson, Nickolas Wade Leavitt. His 10th birthday was on August 31st.  He is the youngest of three children in his family. Nick is a cheerful, happy and smart young man and makes friends easily. He had to start a new school this year since he and his family moved in with us. He made friends right away. From what I can tell he is obedient to his parents and seems to want to please them. His middle name is the same as my second son, Wade Phillip Leavitt.  Wade only lived 5 months upon this earth, so my oldest son, Drew and his wife, Chris, decided to remember Wade by giving Nickolas his first name as a middle name.  I was very touched when they revealed what they were doing.

Nick likes and has been active in cubscouts.



With a lot of hard work and support from his parents and leaders he received his Bear just a few days before his 10th birthday.








He is now a Webelo and has an awesome Webelo leader, Travis Millet, who was in attendance when Nick received his bear. You can see Travis from the back in the pictures above.  He is wearing the blue striped shirt.

Nick is a Lego lover.  With his birthday money he was able to add to his Lego collection.




I love Nick and his sense of humor.  He takes life as it comes and seems to roll with the punches. It's a treat to have him in our home now along with his family. They add so much to our home. I am so proud of Nick and know he will grow into an awesome priesthood holder, missionary and father when the time comes.

Monday, August 29, 2011

I Believe

Have a seat, relax and read this slowly. I think you'll find some things that you also believe.


I Believe . . .

A Birth Certificate  shows we were born
A Death Certificate shows we  died
Pictures show we lived!

I Believe...
Just because two people argue,
Doesn't mean they don't love each  other.
And just because they don't argue,
Doesn't  mean they do love each other.

I Believe...
We don't have to change friends if 
We understand friends change.

I Believe....
No matter how  good a friend is, they're going to hurt
You every once  in a while and you must forgive them for  that. 

I Believe...
True friendship continues to  grow, even over
The longest distance. Same goes for true  love.

I Believe...
You can do something in an  instant
That will give you heartache for  life. 

I  Believe...
it's taking me a long time
To become the  person I want to be.

I Believe...
You should always leave loved  ones with
Loving words. It may be the last time you see  them. 

I Believe...
You can keep going long after  you think you can't.

I Believe...
We are  responsible for what we do, no matter how we  feel. 

I  Believe...
Either you control your attitude or it  controls you.

I Believe..
Heroes are the people who do  what has to be done
When it needs to be done, regardless  of consequences.

I Believe...
Money is a lousy way of  keeping score..

I Believe...
My best friend and I can do  anything or nothing
And have the best  time. 

I Believe...
Sometimes the people you  expect to kick you
When you're down will be the ones to  help you get back up.

I Believe...
Sometimes when  I'm angry, I have the right to be angry,
But that  doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe...
Maturity  has more to do with what types of experiences you've had 
And what you've  learned from them, and less to do 
With how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe..
It  isn't always enough to be forgiven by  others; 
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive  yourself..

I Believe...
No matter how bad your heart  is broken,
The  world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe... 
Our background and circumstances may have influenced who  we are,
But we are responsible for whom we  become. 

I Believe...
You shouldn't be so eager to  find
Out a secret. It could change your life  forever. 

I Believe....
Two people can look at the  exact same
Thing and see something totally  different..

I Believe...
Your life can be changed in a  matter of
Hours by people who don't even know  you. 

I Believe...
Even when you think you have  no more to give, when
A friend cries out to you - you  will find the strength to help.

I Believe...
Credential's on the wall do  not make you a decent human being.

I Believe... 
The people you care about most in life are taken from  you too soon.

I  Believe......
The happiest of people don't  necessarily have the best of everything;
They just make  the most of  anything.


Saturday, August 13, 2011

Visiting the Temple

Dean and I drove to the Las Vegas Temple last night. We sat in the foyer for a little while and it was interesting observing the people that were there.  We observed a couple different sets of missionaries.  Some were showing some investigators around.  Some were with new converts who were there to do baptisms for the dead along with some seasoned members of the church. I enjoyed just sitting and watching. It's wonderful to see the people that go there, in different stages of the conversion process, from investigators to new converts to long time members to members that were born into the church.

We walked around and took more pictures.  I love the temple grounds! Even as warm as it is right now, being on the grounds makes you feel like you are in a paradise. They are taken care of with a lot of care and love and precision. 

These pictures are in the back of the temple.  It makes you forget you are in Las Vegas.  Sometimes I feel like there is a taste of heaven here.





This is a small waterfall. 


There are different benches so  you can sit and relax and enjoy your surroundings.


If you look close there is a missionary in this picture. It's hard to tell but he is looking up.


This is a back view of the Angel Moroni before it started getting dark.


This was more of a front view of the Angel Moroni as the sun was going down.


There is more information about the LDS Temples at http://www.ldschurchtemples.com/. It's wonderful to realize that the Lord's kingdom will go forward no matter what effort Satan puts into destroying it. There are 134 temples in operation, 12 under construction and 15 more have been announced.  I for one want to be part of the Lord's kingdom. What a glorious day it will be when the Savior, Jesus Christ, comes again!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

A Special Type of Soldier

A while back I received the following in an email from a friend.  I am so grateful for my membership in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints.  I wonder if we appreciate this enough.

I am also extremely grateful for the men and women that put their lives on the line each day to protect our freedoms and way of life.

This is very touching. It is told by Hugh B. Brown who was a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and served as a counselor on several occasions in the First Presidency.


          
At the request of the First Presidency, I had gone to England as coordinator for the LDS servicemen.  One Saturday afternoon in 1944, I  sent a telegram from London to the base chaplain near Liverpool letting   him know that I would be in camp the next morning to conduct Mormon church services at 10:00 a.m.
           
When I arrived at the camp, there were 75 Mormon boys, all in uniform and quite a number in battle dress.  The chaplain to whom I had sent the wire proved to be a Baptist minister fromthe southern U. S.  He, too, was waiting for my arrival.  As these young men ran out to greet me not because it was I, but because of what I represented, and as they literally threw their arms around me, knowing I was representing their parents as well as the Church, the minister said, "Please tell me how you do it."
         
"Do what?"
         
"Why," he said, "I did not get your wire until late this morning.  I made a hurried search.  I found there were 76 Mormon boys in this camp.  I got word to them.  75 of them are here.  The other is in the hospital.  I have more than 600 Baptist in this camp, and if I gave them 6 months notice, I could not get a response like that."
         
And then he repeated, "How do you do it?"
         
I said, "Sir, if you will come inside, perhaps you will see."
           
We went in to the little chapel.  The boys sat down.  I asked, "How many here have been on missions?"  I think a full 50% raised their hands.
           
I said, "Will you and you and you" and I pointed to six of them "please come and administer the sacrament?  And will you and you and you" and I pointed to six others "please come and sit here and be prepared to speak."
           
Then I said, "who can lead the music?" A number of hands were raised. "Will you come and lead the music?  And who can play this portable organ?"  There were several more hands, and one was selected. 

Then I said, "What would you like to sing, fellows?"  With one voice they replied, "Come, Come Ye Saints!" We had no hymnbook.  The boy sounded the chord:  they all arose.  I have heard "Come, Come Ye Saints" sung in many lands and by many choirs and congregations.  Without reflecting adversely on what we usually hear I think I have only heard "Come, Come Ye Saints" sung that once when every heart seemed to be bursting.  They sounded every verse without books.
         
When they came to the last verse, they didn't mute it; they didn't sing it like a dirge but throwing back their shoulders, they sang out until I was fearful the walls would burst.  "And should we die before our journey's through, happy day, all is well"; I looked at my minister friend and found him weeping. 

         
Then one of the boys who had been asked to administer the sacrament knelt at the table, bowed his head, and said, "Oh, God, the Eternal Father."  He paused for what seemed to be a full minute, and then he proceeded with the rest of the blessing on the bread.  At the close of that meeting, I sought that boy out.  I put my arm around his shoulders, and said, "Son, what's the matter? Why was it so difficult for you to ask the blessing on the bread?"
         
He paused for a minute and said, rather apologetically, "Well, Brother Brown, it hasn't been two hours since I was over the continent on a bombing mission.  As we started to return, I discovered that my tail assembly was partly shot away, that one of my engines was out, that three of my crew were wounded,  and that it appeared absolutely impossible that we could reach the shore of England.
         
Brother Brown, up there I remembered Primary and Sunday School and MIA, and home and church, and up there when it seemed all hope was lost, I said, "Oh, God the eternal Father, please support this plane until we reach a landing field."  He did just that, and when we landed, I learned of this meeting and I had to run all the way to get here. I didn't have time to change my battle dress, and when I knelt there and again addressed the Lord, I was reminded that I hadn't stopped to say thanks. Brother Brown, I had to pause a little while to tell God how grateful I was."
         
Well, we went on with the meeting.  We sang.  Prayers were offered, and these young men, with only a moment's notice, each stood and spoke, preached the gospel of Jesus Christ to their comrades, bore their testimonies, and again I say with due respect to the various ones with whom I have associated and labored-they were among the finest sermons I have ever heard.
         
Then the time was up and I said, "Fellows, it's time for chow.  We must dismiss now, or you will miss your dinner."  With almost one voice they cried, "We can eat grub any time. Let's have a testimony meeting!"
         
So we stayed another hour and a half while every man bore witness to the truthfulness of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.  Each one in turn, and in his own way, said, "I know that God lives. I know that the gospel is restored.  I know that Joseph was a prophet of God."  Again I looked at my friend, and he was weeping unashamedly.
         
At the close of that meeting, this minister said, "I have been a minister for more than 21 years, and this has been the greatest spiritual experience of my life."

Monday, July 25, 2011

Forever and Always

Today is mine and Dean’s 42nd wedding anniversary.  Wow! 42 years.  When I was younger I thought I would be dead before I reached this point.  To my surprise I’m still here!
We were married on July 25, 1969 in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints temple in St. George Utah.

St. George Utah Mormon Temple

I remember how far it seemed to be to drive there.  Now it seems like nothing.
My wedding day was memorable in a lot of ways.  I lived in Henderson Nevada with my parents until I married Dean.  I spent the night before our wedding with Dean’s family so that he wouldn’t have to get up so early and drive to Henderson to get me.  He spent the night at our apartment.  I didn’t sleep much that night.  Evidently Dean didn’t either.  He had a few last minute things to do, one of which was to wash our car. So he didn’t get to bed until early morning, maybe 1:00. He had his alarm set to get up at 4:00 am.  We were planning on leaving around 5:00 am to head to Utah. Nothing has changed much in the sleep department over the last 42 years.  Dean still puts sleep off doing other things.
Dean had planned on getting up and picking me up at 5:00.  However 5:00 came and went and no Dean.  So we went to the apartment.  He was still asleep.  We had to knock on the door and windows to wake him up.  He was ready in record time. Well, almost ready.  He was dressed.  However, he needed to put his tie on and, if my memory serves me correctly, he needed to do up his sleeves.  That day I learned something more about Dean.  He was, and still is, a multi-tasker when it comes to driving a car.
Well I was thinking he could do those two things, tie his tie and do up his sleeves, when we got to St. George.  Just a side note, this was pre-freeway, so we had to go over what we called Utah Hill. It was a narrow two lane road that wound around the hill or small mountain. So instead of waiting to take care of his last minute dressing needs, he chose to do them while he was driving.  I will never forget that day. He was driving the car with his knee, tying his tie and doing up his sleeves.  All the while, I’m wanting to reach over and drive for him. Ah, the memories.
As I’m sure many new brides do, I’ve forgotten a lot about that day. 42 years is a long time to try and remember details and if I were good at keeping a journal then the details would be easier. I do remember the feeling I had when we held hands as we knelt at the altar. We were married for time and eternity. What a wonderful feeling that was!
Now 5 children, 9 grandchildren, a lot of laughter and tears and 42 years later here we are.  Still married and loving it.  We’ve definitely had our joy and our sorrows, moments to rejoice and moments to cry. But from the first time I met Dean I knew he was the one that I was meant to be with for eternity.
Our bodies and minds are getting older along with all the aches and pains.  But our spirits are eternal.  And someday when we are resurrected our bodies will be also.
I’m grateful for the knowledge that we can be together with our family forever. We’ve had to work at this marriage, sometimes more than others.  But it has been worth it. I appreciate all that Dean has done for me and given me and all that he still does.  I know he loves me and that means the world to me, to have the knowledge of that love.  Through our trials and challenges (opportunities), when I stopped and remembered that love, I could keep going.
Thank you, dear Dean, for all your love.  I will love you eternally and thank the Lord every day for you.



Friday, July 22, 2011

How Do You Handle Adversity?

You may never look at a cup of coffee the same way again!

A young woman told her mother how difficult things were for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and felt like giving up.

Her mother took her to the kitchen and filled three pots with water. Soon the water started boiling. In the first pot, she placed carrots.



 In the second, she put eggs.



And in the third, she placed coffee beans.



She let them sit and boil.



In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them on a plate. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a mug. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "What do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," her daughter replied. Her mother handed her some carrots. They were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed that the egg was now hard boiled. Then the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

Then the daughter asked, "What does all this mean?" Her mother said that each of these had faced the same adversity --boiling water. But each reacted differently. "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with an open heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a break-up, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water -- the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

-- from: Dr. Rob Gilbert & Joe DePalma

Monday, July 18, 2011

Choices We Make

My posts have indicated that I have had a few challenges I have gone through in the last couple of years.  I know that choices that we make bring on life's challenges and opportunities. 

Fixing broken things in our lives is not always easy. Sometimes the hardest part about the whole thing is me.  Me, believing in myself, getting past things that have happened. Me, accepting myself no matter what I’ve done and realizing that I can jump the hurdles but that some of them take more times than others.

In the book, Broken Things To Mend, Orson F. Whitney, who served in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints tells the following.  This is an experience from his mission that he served as a young man.

“One night I dreamed . . . that I was in the Garden of Gethsemane, a witness of the Savior’s agony . . . . I stood behind a tree in the foreground. . . . Jesus, with Peter, James, and John, came through a little wicket gate at my right. Leaving the three Apostles there, after telling them to kneel and pray, He passed over to the right side, where He also knelt and prayed. . . : ‘Oh my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless not as I will but as Thou wilt.’

“As He prayed the tears streamed down His face, which was [turned] toward me. I was so moved at the sight that I wept also, out of pure sympathy with His great sorrow.  My whole heart went out to Him.  I loved Him with all my soul and longed to be with Him as I longed for nothing else.

“Presently He arose and walked to where those Apostles were kneeling—fast asleep! He shook them gently, awoke them and in a tone of tender reproach, untinctured by the least show of anger or scolding, asked them if they could not watch with Him one hour. . . .”

I love the Savior with all my heart.  I need to learn to mirror his example. If I can do that I will have a chance of overcoming my weaknesses and kick Satan out of my life.

My life is blessed beyond my capability to understand. I am so grateful for my life and my family. It is so fun to get together with my children and grandchildren. They are so full of life and so much fun. And yet Satan still works hard on discouraging me.  That is when I count the many blessings I have.  Yes life is full of challenges for us all.  But we must learn to handle these challenges and view them for what they are. I am convinced that Satan’s biggest and most successful tool is discouragement.

I found the following from a Pastor Rick Warren online and felt it was one of the greatest things I’ve read regarding discouragement.  I hope you get something from this.

"There's a fascinating story in the Bible about how a guy named Nehemiah mobilized the residents of Jerusalem to build a wall around the entire city. Half way through the project, the citizens became discouraged and wanted to give up . . .
Here's what Nehemiah taught about defeating discouragement (Nehemiah 4):
REST YOUR BODY
If you need a break -- take one! You'll be more effective when you return to work. If you're burning the candle at both ends, you're not as bright as you think!
REORGANIZE YOUR LIFE
Discouragement doesn't necessarily mean you are doing the wrong thing. It may just be that you are doing the right thing in the wrong way. Try a new approach. Shake things up a little.
REMEMBER GOD WILL HELP YOU
Just ask Him. He can give you new energy. There’s incredible motivating power in faith.
RESIST THE DISCOURAGEMENT
Fight back! Discouragement is a choice. If you feel discouraged, it's because youve chosen to feel that way. No one is forcing you to feel bad. Hang on! Do what's right in spite of your feelings. No feeling lasts forever."